Mom 50 n her boyfriend 29

You may sit her and talk to her and I would advice you to take your husband in confidence.

Hi Cecilia! Being a daughter and a mother of two girls myself I understand what u r talking about. It is difficult to accept it on the face of it. If I may ask u one question, hope u won't mind answering it? Where is your father? In case she is alone and looking for a company, I don't see why it should be a problem. It's not easy to spend whole life alone. She has been there and done that and also has seen the world. I believe she knows what she is doing. As far as your doubts are concerned regarding the boy and his credentials, you sure have every right to warn her but as far as her relationship with that guy is concerned u should keep your views reserved .trust me it's not easy to live alone. When u like someone u look beyond all factors be it age, color of skin or and all other physical characteristics. I am sure she too knows there is no future to this relationship and is just looking for a close friend in him. So would request you to forget about who will say what and how it would affect you. Rather think about it from her point of view. And do keep in mind its time to repay and do something for your mother and her happiness. Hope u agree with me. Tkcare!

@Shikha quite a balanced and matured response Shikha!