my daughter talkative
Created by Updated on May 23, 2016
hi, my daughter is 5 years old, she is very talkative. whatever we speak in our home , she will try to use all the words without knowing the meaning and she is trying to immitate .we are living in joint family , because of this attitude we are getting so much of prblm so. plz give me solution .
| May 24, 2016
Hi Mamatha Mallam! Your child is gifted with a sharp memory. consider this as her strength. And be a role model to her with positive traits whom she can imitate without thinking twice. Set positive examples for her. If we ask the child to follow us or be like us all the time except when we are bitching or discussing family matters, we are communicating many wrong messages to her. ONE: there is a difference in what adults say and do. TWo: it's OK to tell lies to cover up once caught. THREE: we can have two opinion about people one which we fake to them and other which we actually feel about them. FOUR: it's OK to do bitching. I am sure we don't want out child to learn all this even though unintentionally from us .avoid discussing family matters in front of them and communicate the same to others as well. Ensure u have created a positive environment at home as children are the first one to sense tension at home and this affects them and they internalize behaviors they have seen especially from primary caregivers displayed while dealing with that situation. . Make sure we teach them to be good humans and spread positivity aroud so that negative thinking doesn't become part of their personality. Hope this helps!