My girl behaviour is changing
Created by Updated on Mar 03, 2017
Hi. Due to problem with husband, my daughter is badly affected. She is having leg pain whole day n don't want to eat anything. She was a very bubbly girl but these days she is always angry and adamant. Plz suggest what to do to make my girl happy again
| Mar 03, 2017
Take her on a short break away from home, just u n ur kid. Talk to you husband when she I off to school that you are trying to calm down the confused kid and not going away from him and the situation. you should also talk to ur lil one if its ok by her if her father doesnt join the vacation. You can both book 2 days in some farm house or just take her to her grandparents home. She needs to be pampered and caressed sply when she has been a spectator of what's happening between you and ur hubby.
| Mar 03, 2017
hi Hiteshi Bansai! I appreciate your concerns regarding your daughter! individuals living under one roof are not called family because they share a common space but because their sorrows and happiness become interlinked. the good news of one member brings a smile on others face as well and similarly the bad moment of one member makes the whole environment at home gloomy. and Hiteshi believe u me when I say that children are the worst affected when the pillars on whom the foundation of a family is laid develop cracks. she is concerned about her future and doesn't want her worst fears to come true where her family falls apart and she has to part ways with either of you. for her you both are her world. I understand it's the most difficult phase for u and just when someone says avoid such situations in front of her, it's difficult to practice as things have gone out of your control and one thing has led to another. what has been done cant be corrected and what decision u will take regarding future also depends on you both but for child's sake please sit and discuss what u could both do so that she isn't affected. trust me when I say this, the very reason for whom u were struggling for so long I. e.. your daughter isn't happy seeing u both like this. so please bring a change and do whatever u could to make this home a better place to live for her be it this way or that . I hope u understand what I mean. it's advisable to first accept it's not working and then decide the future course of action and take a decision keeping in mind the interest of your child. hope this helps!