My son always keep asking me to carry him in my Arms
Created by Harsha Karan Upadhyay Updated on Jun 02, 2017
My son is 3. 5 yrs old n always asks me to hold him in my arms. Specially wen ever v r in a party or any new place & does not want to instantly play or get mixed up with others. Plz help me to make him get rid of dis habbit. So that I can enjoy any social gathering along with him.
| Jun 02, 2017
Thank you so much. Wil definitely try to implement dis in my daily routine to take him out n yes I stay in a nuclear family may b this is d prime reason.
| Jun 02, 2017
hi Harsha ! how r u! r u staying in a nuclear family? it's usually seen children who have mostly seen their parents around cling to them and prefer to have them around and take time to socialize. it's advisable to take him to park everyday,or give him opportunities to spend time with agemates by organizing playdates. also u could tell him he will be called a 'grown up boy ' only after he stops clinging to u . rest all children will become taller and he will remain a baby if he continues to cling to u. the purpose is not to embarrass him but motivate him . also when u go to a party u need to apprise him beforehand of the people who will be there , and his friends and their name and more details about them so that he doesn't feel out of place. also share with him politely what u expect from him. once u reach there help him to mingle with his friends and once he is comfortable , let him carry on. praise him for his good behavior. hope this will be of help to u!