my son either not responding willingly or stubborn-i am confused

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Updated on Aug 17, 2017
my son is 3. 3 years. He goes to school regularly. he is in nursery 1. He doesn't say anything about his class or teacher. His class teacher told me that every children are giving or taking the exercise book or book when they are asked to do that. only my son is not doing that. He just sits on his sit and also doesn't respond on teacher's call. the teacher says that she is trying her best for my son.







| Aug 17, 2017
ok it could be related to moodiness only. tell him if he would give his notebook, she would check it and give it back with a star or smiley stickers on it. also if she likes the work she might make everyone clap for him.. also tell him to follow teacher's instructions as u used to do when u were of his age.. at home also give similar instructions and praise him when he follows. hope this helps!


| Aug 17, 2017
Dear Piyali, This type of children are common. No need to worry. They're reserved type. They may answer or respond to only those people they like the most. I handled children like this. But if they're driven properly, chances are there to lead him to a gr8 man. I recommend you to give him some instructions like how to respond, how to talk, etc yet would've done it already and kindly note that this can be performed only when he's in a happy mood. These type of children have higher capacity of understanding while they're happy. Choose the correct time. We can't expect a sudden change. But, slowly they'll try to do things as u instruct. All the best.

| Aug 18, 2017
sasirekha and shikha both of you were right. my son doesn't like the class teacher at all. he willingly doesn't respond in school. he writes letters numbers,recognize colour at home but not in school in front of his teacher. many other guardians in the class face the same problem. now it is clear this is not my son's problem but the teacher's problem.