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Meeta Mishra
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Updated on Aug 17, 2016

Hello all...... because we all r someone's mother,wife and DIL,I think u all can relate me with this matter..... I don't know what is wrong but my MIL always tries to put me and my parents down as i m working my mother takes care of my baby..... she always say baby ka ye theek ni..... WO aisa krta hai and make my husband fight with me...... I don't know how to handle all this.... I m so frustrated.... Don't know what to do

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Tejal Singh

| Aug 20, 2016

Hi meeta, have you tried to give your baby to your Mil for taking care? If not, then give, keep Nanny and let your MIL take care of your baby. Initially when baby comes, adjustment issue do creep. Try to mould relationship with Mil (tuff but not impossible). Ask her for her views, talk, take her views positively (even if you don't agree, talk and clear it). B clear about baby but don't b adamant. And best is let her take care of your baby with help of Nanny (if you can afford), then she will understand. Fighting with hubby will make things worst, so discuss and share it positively. Ask him, to keep Nanny and let your MIL take care. Nanny should listen to you, more specifically, then baby will be managed by you and your Mil will be satisfied.

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Haritima Pandey

| Aug 20, 2016

hi.. yes smtimes husband never understand if v tell any complaints abt MIL... like every said first go out with ur hubby nd discuss with him regarding baby care.. u r working it means u r helping financialy to ur hubby nd it's a big thing.. thts y u can't take proper care to ur baby.. u r also a human being after cming hm u also feel tiredness.. I think ur MIL is not interested to take care of ur baby.. so u cn do one more thing.. ur mother always stays at hm so keep one baby take care women (nanny) so ur mother wrk ll b just yo keep an eye on tht lady she is doing wrk properly or not nd tell her to do wrk like ur mother wants.. so it ll easy to handle wrk.. if u like u cn do.. Bcz one of my frnd is doing like this.. our mothers r not very energetic like us for thm also taking care of baby nd doing all kitchen wrks nd other hm wrks ll b difficult.. hope this ll help..

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Bony Basu Sahu

| Aug 19, 2016

hi meeta , I think tanisha is right..... you should discuss ur problem with your husband....

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Tanisha Khanna

| Aug 17, 2016

Don't make any conclusions before even talking to him. Go out with him and then broach the subject in a casual manner. Has your MIL been a housewife? If yes, then just ask your husband what does he think about your job and take it from there.

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meeta mishra

| Aug 17, 2016

But I think he'll never understand because she is his mom...... she makes him feel that I m not a gud mother and wife..

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Tanisha Khanna

| Aug 17, 2016

Hi Meeta, I can understand your frustration but you need to sit down with your husband and share your concerns with him.

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