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planning a second child

7 to 11 years

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Updated on Aug 18, 2017

got married early at 18 and now mother of 7 yr old daughter. .inlaws want boy and they don't look after my kid wen she was too small I used to handle both kitchen and kid which frustrated me and ended up in shouting and hitting kid as now she's grown up she does her wrk but now pressure from inlaws and relatives for a second child.. will she be alone in future. .I need suggestions from plz help me out

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| Aug 18, 2017

Rashmi what if second child is also a girl. would u go in for a third and then a fourth one.. tell them this is the decision u and ur husband needs to take. so they should better refrain from commenting. ask your hubby to take a stand.. and tell them to keep out of this matter . please don't do anything under pressure as it is u and only u , who will be taking care of her kids. if u feel u r comfortable going ahead, go for it and if u r not prepared mentally , emotionally as well as financially, think again.

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| Aug 18, 2017

very much agree with Shikha Batra ji... decision must be your n your hubby... no-one have any right to interfare or force you to do second child... if you are not ready.. and on the grounds that they want boy .. take stand dear..

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