reserve nature kid
Created by Updated on Jul 04, 2018
I have 3. 7 yrs girl. she doesn't respond when someone wants to talk with her. At home she is too talkative but infront of others she just keep quite. at school also she is too reserve. what should I do to get her exposed?
| Jul 04, 2018
hi Shiksha Jain ! u could gradually work on her confidence level. praise her for good work and behavior. motivate her to take initiative. create opportunities wherein she gets to interact with people. also make her join her favorite activity like dance, art, craft, music sports etc... this would give a boost to her confidence. also keep saying things like 'we are proud of u', 'u r so good at it,',' u r amazing',' u did it so well'. make her speak lines in front of a mirror or on a mike.. help her connect with agemates.. gradually she would open up.. here is a blog u would find useful. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/how-to-raise-an-assertive-child/571?ptref=sa0l000gbjt00fv
| Jul 04, 2018
shiksha she takes time to open up and come out of her shell. before she goes out to meet her friends,talk about them and discuss who all she is going to meet there . u can click pics and display in her room so that she doesn't feel she is going to meet strangers there.. similarly whoever u want her to meet, talk about them and prepare her in advance so that she doesn't feel she is going to meet strangers and will be judged by them.