Sarkhej, Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India I am 34 years old mother of 6 years old child. I always want to only child family but my husband wish there should be two kids,now I am confused that what should I do? plz suggest me

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Updated on Dec 10, 2020

| Dec 10, 2020
Hi Karishma Mansuri I also suggest you to think about one more time. Having two kids can add an extra punch in a family. Both the kids can learn from each other i. e a sense of sharing, careing and brotherly/sisterly love. As adults they will be able to deal with others in a better way. Having a single child can make the child feel lonely. It's best to have a sibling where a child can play, fool and even quarrel which is a part of growing process. Only if the parents are not financially stable then it is better to have a single child. When the parents are aged, it is the duty of the children to take care of them. In case one of the child does not fulfill the obligation then the other child can fulfill the same. Parents can assure themselves that at least one of their child will be there to take care of them.

| Dec 10, 2020
Hi Karishma Mansuri ! This is the right time to have a second child. If you are financially and physically comfortable then I would like to suggest you to go for the second baby as your husband is also in the favour of. You should think from your child's perspective. It is there need also to have a sibling.

| Dec 10, 2020
Hi,Karishna Mansuri, I am a mother of 2 children,in my experience I am really overjoyed by the sweet interactions between my children. my house is always being more fun and more messy ;). Siblings will sometimes develop their own language and games that you're not even a part of. The greatest benefit of having another baby is that your children learn the importance of sharing and caring, which a single child does not learn easily. With two children growing up in the house, you would find it easier to teach them to share their toys, books and all other things. Many parents with a single child face the problem of their child feeling lonely. This is a problem you would never have to face if you plan on having a second baby. having a second baby would be awesome for you as well as for your little one.