Stress

Hy.. may be u r suffering from pdd post pregnancy depression. ..u shld do meditation n eat healthy food... do somewht of tym mgmt.. tht vl help u n ur children both... u can also play with both of thm... tht vl help ur son to create bond with ur daughter. ..

I agree with Kush Shah! But whatever you do please don't spank your son, as it affect him negatively.

Hi Mubeen Ansari! What u r going through is post pregnancy depression which is quite normal. The hormones are playing a rolé in making u feel angry,left out,stressed out. All negative things might come to your mind. When these thoughts come to your mind tell yourself repeatedly: 'it will be fine soon'. Also let your husband know how u feel,talk to him, spell out how u want him to help you,delegate responsibilities. Take help of elders in the family. take a nap when kids are sleeping, as Lil one would take some more time to have a fixed schedule. Look at the face of your son he is also equally disillusioned and going through a tough phase and believes, a small baby is getting all the attention and has taken his place; his parents have forgotten him, his mother doesn't love him anymore and he is no longer needed in this house. Help him accept this new addition in the family, shower your love on him, involve him by asking him to help u with small chores. Mubeen Ansari it's just a phase,kids will grow up soon. Enjoy this phase by creating pleasant memories to be cherished life lOng. Hope this helps!

Hi mubeen I will agree with my fellow parents what they have suggested but I would like to add one thing I. e take help of your son in small chorses, bond with him and importantly involve him in taking care of your baby daughter. This may create a special bond between three of you. Talk to your hubby share things with him also. We females feel that we go through tuff phrase but believe me fathers/ Husband equally get stressed. Hope this help.

Thanks dears for helping me... seems it helps me... I feel happy now for sharing.. N getting solutions.