Created by Updated on Feb 26, 2018
hi my son is 3 yr nd 4 mnth old. he is getting very stubborn now a days nd he also cried a lot for small things. sometime I threatened nd scold him nd even I slapped him tightly due to his stubbornness. he avoid to go to school nd also avoid to do his homework . I am very upset due to this situation what should I do please help
| Feb 26, 2018
hi Jyoti gola ! you could deal with him with love. plan a schedule for the child in which there is time for play ,recreation ,rest. try and make studies interesting by thinking of out of the box activities. deal with love and hug . say good things to him like' I am proud of you', 'you are special to me '. praise him when he behaves well .here is a blog u find useful. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/love-or-fear-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/771?ptref=sa0l000030g00lf
| Feb 27, 2018
According to me children do get stubborn at times and you feel like slapping them. I suggest don't panic at that time,calm down and divert his attention to something better. After hitting him you will feel bad and it's better to handle tactfully. I hope this works on your child
| Mar 01, 2018
Hi... first thing pl don't use violence against kids.. I understand that u get furious when the kid doesn't listen to u. . Pl stay calm when he is shouting or not obeying you.. Then call him n talk to him.. He will definitely listen to u.. Before approaching ur kid. first take a decision in ur mind that u won't scold or threaten or beat ur kid... Stay cool n handle things... U will notice a difference.. Try this and update us..