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thinking to take second chance

Priyanka Mandora
1 to 3 years

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Updated on Sep 28, 2017

hello, I have a kid of 2 year. I m thinking to take second chance now. my age is 33, is it proper gap between two kids? actually I m confused to take or not.. there are many reasons not to take chance... n less reasons to take it... plz help me out

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Rim

| Sep 28, 2017

Congratulations.. keep thinking positive and positivity will flow in air. U can teach ur child to feed on his own with some help ofcourse in coming time and do prepare him mentally for the upcoming change. As Shikhaji said - you can take ur family members help or can hire a maid.

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Shikha Batra

| Sep 28, 2017

Priyanka Mandora of feeding ur child is the only issue u have regarding ur child then u could talk to her and request her to help u with this.. Priyanka u could also take the help of yr husband and a maid in doing chores for u.

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Priyanka Mandora

| Sep 28, 2017

thank you so much shikhaji.. actually I have conceived already.. I mean yesterday only I checked it.. doctor suggested to carry it, if you really want, then why to delay it.. but my problem is my mother in law doesn't even try to feed my first kid. if I insist her then only she ll feed.. so it's bit difficult for me to tell her every time.. I suppose it's grandma duty or say she should herself feel to feed her grand son.. but that's not the case.. so I m thinking what if after second delivery I have to handle both.. I feel doubt on me whether I ll cope up with it or not...

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Shikha Batra

| Sep 28, 2017

hi Priyanka Mandora! I do comprehend ur concerns. the age Gap would be perfect . if u r willing to go ahead with this decision , please consult ur gyanecologist once and get a proper evaluation done to see if ur body is prepared for the second chance , age factor and other issues.. also keep in mind other factors such as support of family members, financial status, acceptance of older child etc..

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puloma pandey

| Sep 28, 2017

Hi Priyanka, just go through this blog it will clear all your confusion to take decision of second baby: Hey! I find this Parenting blog really interesting. I suggest you have a look too: https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/the-toughest-decision-second-baby-or-not/2302?ptref=sa0l000468401ry

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