We all have same cranial capacity, still some kids are highly skilled and intelligent whereas others are dull and unskilled.
Created by Updated on Sep 20, 2017
Here in this topic I am trying to through some light on the child's thinking and perception along with how efficiently we can make use of their brain and let them turn intelligent and skilled humans. when I talk of cranial capacity, I mean to say every human being have almost similar brain capacities to learn and grasp. Then why do some kids are exceptional. For this I have asimoek example "more to sharpen your axe the better you cut a tree". At very early childhood years around 2 or something when kids brain tart understanding instructions, inspite of letting them do things we do it for them, we set up their messed toys, we manage their selves, we are overprotective, overposessive etc whereas just after an year when they start school, we expect them to start like robots, learn and listen whatever instructed. This will not happen. This would have happened if you have sown the seeds of independence and care for their belongings at that age when you were ahead of him or her in helping. You thought it was your work but perhaps it was his or hers. Give your child a sena de responsibility, sense of reasoning, sense of discovering on his own, let them try things their way rather than. correct or uniform way. Then you would realize the true potential of kid. Inteligent kids are made by giving exposure and let them use that as per his imaginations, going out to places, relatives, exploring old toys to create something new, giving them time not by sitting together or taking to parties, but sit next to him and let kid feel your presence and expand his mind to it's full capacity. Become a learner not just a preacher... plz feel free to comment..
| Sep 20, 2017
Thanks Aruna, for the wonderful advise but what can we for know as at present my son is 6. 5 years old and I being a working women have to challenge my time in every aspects. Specially my time goes when I want him to have food independently... he dies it when extremely hungry or have food of his choice... else he doesn't eats on his own. To finish the task I am left with only choice to feed him myself.
| Sep 20, 2017
Meneka n Rashmi, you should take it like this: as your kids are elder to the said age, it's more you know them by now. You know their strength and weakness. Work on their strength to give them positivity. All I would say start today, there will be a better tomorrow.