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20 weeks and 4 days pregnant

20 weeks and 4 days pregnant
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Shown here is a Doppler ultrasound scan. Your midwife may use a hand-held Doppler ultrasound machine to identify your baby’s heartbeat; Doppler scanning can also pick up sudden movements and the whoosh of blood through the placenta.

There are few better ways to relieve those pregnancy aches and pains, and to wind down, than to have a soothing massage.

When you book a massage, make sure you do so with a therapist who is experienced in antenatal massage. Although it’s unlikely to occur at this stage, massaging the wrong areas or certain acupressure points can trigger uterine contractions (this can actually make a massage beneficial during labour when you want to speed things up).

Before booking a massage, check with your doctor or midwife that it’s okay to have one. It may not be recommended if you’ve had complications such as high blood pressure or diabetes.

Comfort is crucial and most therapists will position you lying on your side with your head supported by a pillow. Don’t hesitate to tell the therapist if you’re uncomfortable or if any aspect of the massage hurts. An experienced therapist should check that you’re comfortable throughout the massage and stop if you’re not.

If you don’t want to book a professional massage, you can always call on your partner or a willing friend. It is, however, important that the person who is massaging you is careful and does not attempt to work on the abdominal area.

As well as making a world of difference to those aches and pains and helping you to relax, a massage from your partner is a good way to be intimate with him at times when you might not feel like having sex.

If you don’t feel up to having a full massage, a foot, hand, or head massage can be very soothing.

Having a professional massage during pregnancy can be a real treat. Besides feeling blissful, research shows that it eases aches and pains, helps you to sleep, and can reduce stress.

I can’t look in the mirror as I’m feeling so down about my size. Will things get better?

You’re not alone in battling with your self-image in pregnancy. For some women, their changing body shape can create negative feelings. Eating a healthy diet and taking some exercise helps to prevent excessive weight gain, and exercising will also lift your spirits and improve your sense of wellbeing.

There’s no set emotional response to pregnancy, but as well as coming to terms with a momentous life and body change, you are also under the influence of fluctuating hormones, all of which affects your mood and can add to feelings of negativity.

Mild depression in pregnancy is often helped by reassurance and support from your partner, family, or friends. Talking over your fears and concerns may help to relieve your anxieties – you’ll probably find that other pregnant women are experiencing the same feelings.

If you are feeling very low and desperate, don’t hesitate to consult your midwife or doctor.

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This content has been checked & validated by Doctors and Experts of the parentune Expert panel. Our panel consists of Neonatologist, Gynecologist, Peadiatrician, Nutritionist, Child Counselor, Education & Learning Expert, Physiotherapist, Learning disability Expert and Developmental Pead.

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