Light weekend reads: An open letter from a wife to her husband!

Dear hubby,

You might be surprised to see this letter, once it gets published. It will be a total surprise for you and you will think that I should have told you all this directly instead of taking so much of effort in writing it down. But trust me, penned down feelings are deeper and are meant to be much close to heart. So bear with me!

Our life together has just begun. The real test of our compatibility and having an understanding of each other has just begun. Earlier it was just you and me but now a little space has been made by our little one. She is our part and she has obviously made a very special place in our life. Since we are in a nuclear family, where we are the only ones to look after her, it might be possible that I may not be able to give as much time and love to you now as compared to earlier. It might be possible that we may not be able to spend that much of quality time with each other than earlier.

But hubby, please keep it in mind that I will always support you in every situation. I will never create a fuss for not getting proper attention and I will want the same promise from you as well. I want you to understand that every bit of my effort is solely for the better upbringing of our daughter and I want to give her my best. And that is the reason that I am always busy taking care of her and household work.

As you know, that it is difficult to bring up a baby without the support of a family, and I would need all your support to work as a team and enjoy every moment of it. Also, there will be times when I may lose my temper and get irritated, because of lack of sleep and sheer exhaustion. And that irritation comes out on you because you are the only available person. I just want to say sorry for everything. I don't mean any of it and it's just out of irritation I tend to say a lot. Please bear with me for sometime as this phase will also pass. I will not be sleep deprived or tired for long hopefully. Our baby will soon be independent enough to take care of herself and then we will miss these moments. So please don't be sad or feel bad about anything.

I also wanted to let you know that I too miss our intimate moments before having a baby. I still your company a lot and love to spend time with you but now there is our daughter as well who needs us. Earlier, we were carefree couple with nary a worry in the world who enjoyed late night movies and could spend the entire weekend on junk food. But now we have our little bundle of joy to take care of and hence we have to be more responsible and mature.

I just want to let you know that I love you even more now and never feel that my love for you has diminished or I no longer care about you. It's just that my role has got bigger. Earlier I was just a wife. But now I am a mommy as well. I must say that I have got two babies now, one who is big enough not to take care of himself alone and another one is just born. ;) Let's make a promise hubby that no matter what we will always be together and we as a team will do what is best for our daughter. And I assure you that one day she will be proud of her parents.

 Because only happy parents raise a happy and confident child!

Lots of love,

Your loving wifey