Good touch, bad touch -- know the difference

Very valuable information, thank you Mam. But again I want to ask one question that, in our families and friends there are members who, Pat on the hips, of our children and pull their pants down in front of everyone,pinch on the hips etc,... And what is the reason explained by them is because they are doing mischief. This is a common thing, if I'm not wrong in our families.. At this content being a mother when I look my child's face he is blank... he don't know what to say, whom to say, the action done is by family member with a smile, so is it normal... But still I can see little embrassment in child's face. Some times the grandparents say "Arey hamara to mazak ka rista Hai n all"So how can we stop this, awareness is also necessary for elder members of family. As small children will be confused in learning bad touch and got touch. And also cannot differentiate either they are abused or not by some close members.

thanks for sharing such very important information.

very useful information lubna. thank you so much !!

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when kid starts to learn their body part like eyes, ears, nose we can add their private parts also at that time. I teach my daughter like this way. Now she learnt to shows her private part only to mommy.

good information ....

when the child is able to understand body parts, able to express properly, this varies from child to child

wat is right age to start this education

good information ... parents should make give this information to their children

useful information

so much useful information

very useful information.......

thanks for the imformation

very useful information thanks for sharing

Very nice

thanks !!!!!

thanks a lot...... for sharing

Thank u for sharing these useful tips.

thank you for the information

Very usefull message.. And I had alredy started

Good awareness

nice information. helpfull also.

gud information. thanku

thanks for useful post

very useful message thanks for educating us

Nice message.

at what age should we teach a boy about good n bad touch??

really helpful for each parent... thank u so much

Thank for this blog. it's very useful for all of us.

Very nice message

Hi Lubna Thankyou for this blog. It is extremely important to empower the child with knowledge to protect him/her from any such incident. However i think we also need to know when is the appropriate age to talk about these things considering a child as young as 2 or 3 years are also sometimes susceptible to untoward incident. What according to you should be the right age to educate the child?

@Manvi- I didn't get ur comnent

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Very useful.

very useful

thank u for sharing these useful tip s.. but one thing i would like yo ask u that.. if someone is following our child and trying to do something bad and our child after knowing all this.. says No and like u said "i will report to my parents". I think would this type of movement will led her to a life risk?? culprit can do anything with our child. Actually what should be the right for our child in that situation ...our kids are our world.. so what would be appropriate..

@Varuna- the time when kid is able to understand things, it should be started then gradually. Its like how we make kid teach parts of body, eyes, ear, nose etc, we must start focussing on this as well. It varies from kids to kids. Ideally, before the child goes to pre-school, we must try to teach kid about it.

what's the right age to tell about good and bad touch?

Well said lubna, please keep on writing on related issues it's really helpful.

So enlightening. The parents of present generation kids need the information. Thanks a lot.

A really informative blog which s highly needed nowadays. Thanks for it

useful information. Pls do guide up by ur blofs

a very informative write up . thanks

very well written lubna. your guidelines are really helping for us.

@Punjal- the time when kid is able to understand things, it should be started then gradually. Its like how we make kid teach parts of body, eyes, ear, nose etc, we must start focussing on this as well. Lt varies from kids to kids. Ideally, before the child goes to pre-school, we must try to teach kid about it.

At what age should we make our kids understand about Good Touch Bad Touch concept.

As mothers we need to sensitize our children about these matters.

Quite well written blog Lubna. Loved the way you have written it in so simple language