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Good touch, bad touch -- know the difference

Lubna
3 to 7 years

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Good touch bad touch know the difference

With increase in the cases of child sexual abuse and child abduction, every parent needs to be alert for the safety of their child. This calls for certain steps to be taken by the parent including teaching the child about good touch and bad touch.


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Ruby Bhengraj

| Sep 17, 2017

Very valuable information, thank you Mam. But again I want to ask one question that, in our families and friends there are members who, Pat on the hips, of our children and pull their pants down in front of everyone,pinch on the hips etc,... And what is the reason explained by them is because they are doing mischief. This is a common thing, if I'm not wrong in our families.. At this content being a mother when I look my child's face he is blank... he don't know what to say, whom to say, the action done is by family member with a smile, so is it normal... But still I can see little embrassment in child's face. Some times the grandparents say "Arey hamara to mazak ka rista Hai n all"So how can we stop this, awareness is also necessary for elder members of family. As small children will be confused in learning bad touch and got touch. And also cannot differentiate either they are abused or not by some close members.

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Shilpa Suryawanshi

| Sep 16, 2017

thanks for sharing such very important information.

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Chandra Shekhar

| Sep 16, 2017

very useful information lubna. thank you so much !!

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Shakuntala Bhandari

| Sep 16, 2017

useful cont

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Bindu Jayannagari J

| Sep 16, 2017

LLL l l l l

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Luna Pradhan Sahoo

| Sep 16, 2017

when kid starts to learn their body part like eyes, ears, nose we can add their private parts also at that time. I teach my daughter like this way. Now she learnt to shows her private part only to mommy.

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Sandeep Roonwal Vithal

| Sep 16, 2017

good information ....

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lubna

| Jun 09, 2017

when the child is able to understand body parts, able to express properly, this varies from child to child

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Sonia

| Jun 09, 2017

wat is right age to start this education

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Anamika Rejina Minz

| May 30, 2017

good information ... parents should make give this information to their children

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Moulika

| May 30, 2017

useful information

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Asleena Benjamin

| May 30, 2017

so much useful information

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Garima Gupta

| May 30, 2017

very useful information.......

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Jyosna Itha

| May 30, 2017

thanks for the imformation

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pooja Parsewar

| May 30, 2017

very useful information thanks for sharing

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khyati ratan

| May 30, 2017

Very nice

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Saroj Suryawanshi Amrute

| May 30, 2017

thanks !!!!!

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Sunitha Anthony

| Jan 25, 2017

thanks a lot...... for sharing

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Sakshi Lanjekar

| Nov 17, 2016

Thank u for sharing these useful tips.

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Prashant

| Nov 11, 2016

thank you for the information

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Sanisree

| Nov 10, 2016

Very usefull message.. And I had alredy started

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Nagalakshmi Marisetti

| Nov 10, 2016

Good awareness

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Harshada Darekar

| Nov 10, 2016

nice information. helpfull also.

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Ruchi Mahajan

| Nov 10, 2016

gud information. thanku

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tarunkumar

| Nov 10, 2016

thanks for useful post

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Sonali

| Nov 10, 2016

very useful message thanks for educating us

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sriman narayana

| Nov 10, 2016

Nice message.

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Farha Vandeliwala

| Nov 10, 2016

at what age should we teach a boy about good n bad touch??

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Kirti

| Sep 28, 2016

really helpful for each parent... thank u so much

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Laxmipriya Moharana

| Sep 27, 2016

Thank for this blog. it's very useful for all of us.

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Rakesh

| Sep 12, 2016

Very nice message

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chandrani das

| Aug 31, 2016

Hi Lubna Thankyou for this blog. It is extremely important to empower the child with knowledge to protect him/her from any such incident. However i think we also need to know when is the appropriate age to talk about these things considering a child as young as 2 or 3 years are also sometimes susceptible to untoward incident. What according to you should be the right age to educate the child?

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lubna

| Aug 19, 2016

@Manvi- I didn't get ur comnent

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Manavi h s

| Aug 19, 2016

LL

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Jhalak Sharma

| Aug 19, 2016

Very useful.

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Mamc

| Aug 17, 2016

very useful

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Deepashree Goswami

| Aug 16, 2016

thank u for sharing these useful tip s.. but one thing i would like yo ask u that.. if someone is following our child and trying to do something bad and our child after knowing all this.. says No and like u said "i will report to my parents". I think would this type of movement will led her to a life risk?? culprit can do anything with our child. Actually what should be the right for our child in that situation ...our kids are our world.. so what would be appropriate..

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lubna

| Jul 15, 2016

@Varuna- the time when kid is able to understand things, it should be started then gradually. Its like how we make kid teach parts of body, eyes, ear, nose etc, we must start focussing on this as well. It varies from kids to kids. Ideally, before the child goes to pre-school, we must try to teach kid about it.

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Varuna Bothra

| Jul 14, 2016

what's the right age to tell about good and bad touch?

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Satyemitta Jitendra

| Jul 14, 2016

Well said lubna, please keep on writing on related issues it's really helpful.

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Kiran Mayee

| Jul 13, 2016

So enlightening. The parents of present generation kids need the information. Thanks a lot.

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Kantha

| Jul 13, 2016

A really informative blog which s highly needed nowadays. Thanks for it

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Nirmala Raja

| Jul 12, 2016

useful information. Pls do guide up by ur blofs

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Deepti Singh

| Jul 09, 2016

a very informative write up . thanks

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seema aola

| Jul 06, 2016

very well written lubna. your guidelines are really helping for us.

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lubna

| Jul 05, 2016

@Punjal- the time when kid is able to understand things, it should be started then gradually. Its like how we make kid teach parts of body, eyes, ear, nose etc, we must start focussing on this as well. Lt varies from kids to kids. Ideally, before the child goes to pre-school, we must try to teach kid about it.

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Punjal Sadh

| Jul 05, 2016

At what age should we make our kids understand about Good Touch Bad Touch concept.

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Laura

| Jul 05, 2016

As mothers we need to sensitize our children about these matters.

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Nikita

| Jul 05, 2016

Quite well written blog Lubna. Loved the way you have written it in so simple language

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