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8 Motivational Things You Should Tell Your Child Everyday

Soma Sarkar
7 to 11 years

Created by Soma Sarkar
Updated on Sep 21, 2018

8 Motivational Things You Should Tell Your Child Everyday

Motivation is essential for everyone specially for children. Some kids are self motivated they can motivate themselves for all tasks whereas there are others who seek motivated from external factors such as parents, teachers or friends. Now a days competition is more than ever, it is a necessity to keep your child motivated and active.

How Can You Start?

  • Careful Observation-

    Pay attention to the details you have been overlooking till now such as what he likes, which activity fascinates him, which corner of home he uses to spend more time, which types of books he likes to read again and again, which cartoon character he adores
  • Ask His Teachers-

    Whenever you stumble upon a chance for parents meeting try to find out what other activities interests him, which sport makes him feel energetic
  • Asking Him In Playful Mood-

    Try to get their views on all days chores. Try finding out what they actually love to do and also what irritates them
     
  • Doing these things will enable you to know what he really likes and now you can start encouraging them. Main focus is that they should become self motivating. They should not do any task in lure of reward but to learn something new.
     
  • Firstly being a parent try hard to remain happy always. If we are happy we can guide our child in a better way. Secondly take time to listen to your child. Always reward them with sweet words whenever they perform or finish some task like:
    • You are awesome!
    • I am so proud of you!
    • I will love you always!
    • You can do anything!
    • You are a alrounder!
    • You are such a good boy!
    • Always try to introduce failures as steps of ladder and motivate them to try again.
  • Try to give kids a role model, they like their adventures and will do anything to be like them. Parenting duties compel us to say no to certain activities for their own safety. Instead of scolding them we must think of other ways to divert their attention.

    Also Read: Working parents’ positive impact on Child’s behavior –Tips to get the right balance.
     
  • Lets see it through my example- My munchkin these days is in very much mood to use scissors and cuts everything he can get his hands on, telling no is futile because he won't listen. I came up with a different plan, I drew shapes on paper and asked him to cut it precisely. In the end we stuck it on our walls and books. It helped me in three ways first I don't have to deprive him of his hobby, secondly he is learning new ways to cut a paper, thirdly I can do my chores meanwhile. He is getting motivation for more art work(please give child safe scissors).
     
  • Everything a child does must be interesting, we can't lessen the homework but we can make the schedule light by making it fun or with a assurance that we are going to have fun after that. Always tell your child whatever they do you will love him forever also he is different from other children. Each child is born with his own capabilities so stop comparing with others instead help him in his struggles. Try to be his friend and don't ever forget to remind him that he is special for you.
     
  • Sports and physical activities helps in motivating kids naturally, give them plenty of time to play outside. Make them explore the world so they can be interested in many things. Make sure to celebrate your child success. Spending more money on toys will not make him happy beyond a point but doing some fun at home with family members and friends will. Kids learn through observation so give them something positive to observe. Instead of crying for problems help them understand how and where they can find solutions. Teach them how to tackle a problem without us it will make them self dependent.

We can be torch bearer for our kids, so let's take it as a challenge and help our kids to stand alone in future.

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| Oct 08, 2019

How I can use this app?

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| Oct 04, 2019

my kids r very much naughts there very impressed on there granes .I need them to regain the weoght

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| Oct 03, 2019

Bahut intelligent boy hai lekin abhi usko padhaai boring Lagte Hain usko Hamesha khelna rahata hai ya cartoon dekhna

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| Oct 01, 2019

Wait gain food for my child

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| Sep 28, 2019

Thank you for this blog. Always being happy as parents may be tough as it is not easy juggling life, work and parenting. However, having a smile on your face most of the time you interact with your children will definitely help them view you in a positive light, more often than not. A smile is another way of saying to our kids "I understand because I have been a kid too".

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| Sep 25, 2019

Consult a doc . He may be suffering frm digestion issues ..

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| Sep 25, 2019

Find out which taste she likes n try 2 convert her food in tat taste as well as u can also make her meals look different and innovative. Makhana rosted in ghee is a very gd diet given 2 her as wel as sweet potatoes make french fries out of tat

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| Sep 24, 2019

Potatoes, beetroot, pumpkin, in vegetables ko Aap boil karke, mash karke, ek spoon ghee milake de sakte ho. Ek din ek vegetable try kijiye

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| Sep 18, 2019

My son hashir z not feeding well his age z 1 year old He always vomit when ever I give him milk r other diet

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| Sep 15, 2019

Suji ki kheer, custard, fresh apple juice , dal- ka pani

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| Sep 15, 2019

Hi mera baby 6 month ka hogya h us ko maie khane maie apple dethi hun aur kya desakte h

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| Sep 10, 2019

My daughter is 3 yrs old n she dnt shw mch intrest on food i hd tried lots to feed her so WL u plz give meh good advic hw to feed my baby easily

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| Sep 09, 2019

Malish ke time uske pet pr 5 time right hand se round round kre or 5 time left hand se round bnaye is tarh se coconut oil se malish krne se ges problem ho jaegi

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| Sep 09, 2019

Wonderful blog

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| Sep 08, 2019

1. 7 month ki baby hy khane me kch ni leti srf meri feed pe hy plz kch bata dn bhok barhnr k lye

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| Sep 05, 2019

hy mri beti 4years ki ha or khati kuch nh us k pait .ma gass bhot rhta ha

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| Sep 03, 2019

meri babyko 1. 5mnth sa motion horhy hen 7mnth ki hy kia krna chahye dr ko b dekha dia antibiotic ka course b krwa chuki hn but kch nhi horha motion hoye jarhy hen abi tak kch solid b dena strt nhi kia kia de sakti hn aise mai usko

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| Aug 11, 2019

meri baby 2 years ki ho gai he but abi tak walk nahe krti... just stand up Hona start kiya..... i m so worried

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| Aug 05, 2019

My daughter is 11 years old and her height is less then her age i m very worried about her

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| Aug 02, 2019

hi .... mera baby thik se khana nhi khata he is 5 years old i have tried alot of things.. bt its nt working plz help. me.

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| Jul 31, 2019

Which food consists for our baby 8 mth

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| Jul 30, 2019

what should I give 4 month doughter

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| Jul 20, 2019

my child is not interested in studying... he doesn't remember anything... what should I do

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| Jul 14, 2019

Aishe if you are non vegetarian please try boiled egg .Dalia ,or something made from rava. bananas . Chicken soup is very good

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| Jul 14, 2019

Hey mam what should i give my 4 month old daughter for health she is so week

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| Jan 17, 2019

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| Jan 17, 2019

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| Jan 17, 2019

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| Jan 08, 2019

nice message plz share this type of message

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| Jan 06, 2019

Motivational articles really help in parenting

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| Nov 05, 2018

Thanks , superb blog

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| Sep 26, 2018

Thanks for this suggestion.

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| Sep 23, 2018

Very useful ... Thanks

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| Jul 04, 2018

Thank you so much for such a wonderful blog.

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| Jul 02, 2018

Thanks everyone fpr reading

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| Jul 01, 2018

my child is alike. thanks so much for this blog

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| Jul 01, 2018

good article .....vvv...helpful....fr today 's kids

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| Jun 28, 2018

I could find only 6 things... Good article though

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| Jun 28, 2018

It's very helpful

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| Jun 27, 2018

Nice article

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| Jun 06, 2018

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| Jun 06, 2018

Although the blog talks about nice things what were the 8 things as per the topic. I guess I missed that.

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| May 24, 2018

very infomative... thanx

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| May 24, 2018

very good blog.. very informative..

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| May 24, 2018

Thanks for this article as it has open my eyes on many issues I was facing as well as changes I have to bring as a mother.....

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| Mar 17, 2018

superb blog...

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| Mar 06, 2018

Interesting read

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