What happens when you surrender?

that's true.. bt my child is 1. 11 , if we don't fulfill his demand he starts screaming... and sometimes hurts himself... or throw away things... plz suggest what to do in that case

Rightly said patience is the most important. But if we dosent make this a habit of fulfilfilling their wish this problem will never come From the beginning child should be made learn their demanding limitation. And this parents act to make them learn rather than blaming kids in future when they reach to its hight

correct..... agreed.....

rightly said .... patience is key!!!

also u can divert ur child's attention to some other things which attracts him/her most. then he will forget what he was demanding fot

good advice. very usefull for me. thnk u.

useful article for me, my 3 year old daughter always demand in different ways.

good Advice

true.. staying patient smtimes is quite tough,

patience is the key to everything when dealing with children ☺

thank you

Useful article, much needed

very much useful

nice article, it is too hard to handle such situation, patience is appreciated

very useful info

very useful article..

very nice article.. !!

very helpful info

thanks kavitha. will surely try

for 14 months child, allow the child to cry and shout as much as they want. ignore that shouting and try diverting his attention but do this without his knowledge. if they understand that you are diverting them they won't respond. don't look into their eyes while diverting. and show that you are very happy doing so. I do this for my 2. 11 months daughter. and it works well. try and let me know

my child is of 14 months. whenever she wants anything she shouts till she get that thing. what can be done?

what is the right age to handle like this

At what age can we start the reward technique

nice one

thanks of lot

Nice and useful article..

Practically it works.. Great..

appreciated article.. really works for me.

Nice article! This is very useful for me. Thanks for sharing.

Good blog Chaitanya! Good pointers thanks for sharing and writing!

Hi Sowmya, The child when in his stubborn mood will not listen to any logic. You will have to divert his attention towards something else. But even before that just tell him in no certain terms (without getting embarrassed, as children pick up on your discomfort and behave more unreasonably) that you will talk to him only when he stops crying and behaves rationally. Then when he stops crying try to divert his mind to other things.

Nice article .I have seen many children who just go to extend level for fulfilling their wishes .for eg a parent said no for a toy the child sat on the road and started crying .still his mother was not ready she tried to convince but the child was ready to listen .this created such a awkward feeling to the mother in front of all people .what to do with such children .how to tackle them?.

Thanks useful

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Good article.. Thanks

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I agree with Laura. Quite helpful. Thanks Chaitanya!

Good suggestions