How to choose a paediatrician for your newborn
Created by Ankita A Talwar Updated on Jul 07, 2017
After having a baby, a person whose number is the first on the speed-dial of a mum’s phone is perhaps the paediatrician. He is the go-to person when the baby sneezes, falls, cries too much, or just does something which is beyond the comprehension of the new parents. He is the doctor, the counsellor, the pacifier (for the parents)—all rolled into one. Given how important this person is for you, isn’t it necessary that you choose this person wisely as well?
Here we tell you 7 things to keep in mind when choosing a doctor for your little one.
1. Distance matters: Like most things with a child—school, hobby classes, choosing a residence etc—choosing a doctor should also largely depend on how close the doctor’s clinic/hospital is to your house. After all, in a case of a medical emergency with the baby, you don’t want to be travelling long hours before your child can get attention?
2. Look at the doctor’s attitude rather than degrees: With a doctor it is very important that he should have time to listen to you, answer your questions and make an attempt to bond with your child (after all you will be taking your baby to him at least 6 times in the year in the beginning). However popular a doctor might be, or carry a reputation of medical excellence, it is equally important that he should not be too busy for you/your baby. If he is, you may reconsider your choice. Also, does your doctor offer you choices when it comes to choosing a treatment for your child?
3. Availability is crucial: Is your doctor (or a member of his staff) available enough to answer your SOS calls or messages post work hours? How simple are the procedures to reach him? Is there a capable substitute for the doctor in case he is not personally available? These are some points you may wish to consider.
4. Networking of the doctor: Most doctors these days work as consultants in multiple hospitals. This though takes a toll on his time has the benefit of his being available to you at different points. Isn’t that an advantage to think over?
5. Your parenting style vs his opinions: This though is a more qualitative issue and difficult to assess in the start, it is a point worth giving attention to. Doctor’s have their own ideologies and concepts of child healthcare when it comes to issues such as feeding, sleeping routines, massages, etc. While some doctor’s swear by cow’s milk and its benefits, there are many others who do not support it. Also, a few doctor’s may have preference for age-old wisdoms whereas some may totally junk them in favour of newer concepts of parenting. It is important to see whether this is in tandem with your own parenting style else you may end up getting confused about what to do.
6. Support staff: The support staff of a doctor is what adds to his reputation. You don’t want to be sitting in a waiting room with your child that child unfriendly, doesn’t have access to water or a washroom, or has a nurse/attendant who is grumpy about dealing with children.
7. Child Vs doctor: Last but not the least, does your little one like the doctor? We are not saying here that the little one should be given a choice to finalize a doctor, but a doctor whose sight sends the child howling, whom the child is scared of or doesn’t like for whatever reasons, or who the child totally resists going to may not work out for your family in spite of all the credentials he may be carrying.
In the end, though choosing a right doctor is important, it is equally important to have faith in your doctor and not change them too often. It always works better if you stick to one doctor who eventually understands your child’s medical history totally.
We would love to hear your feedback and views on this topic. Do you have any more tips that a fellow mother can keep in mind while selecting a paediatrician for her newborn? Please do share your views in the comments section below.
| Mar 22, 2017
covers everything that I considered while choosing Pediatrician for my lo
| Jan 14, 2017
I completely support Shilpa... u see many mothers will not be comfortable consulting a female Paed. sad but true.
| Jan 05, 2017
it was really good information for mothers who don't hve mch knowledge becz dey r bit confused for the first time
| Jan 04, 2017
This article was informative however it would be great if you could add she/ he instead of only 'he' when you refer to the 'doctor ', we wouldn't want anyone thinking we are sexist