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Has your child high jacked the iPad? - The right way to introduce an I-pad to a Child

Bhavna
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Has your child high jacked the iPad The right way to introduce an I pad to a Child

There was a time when life in a regular home had limited gadget influence, it was either a single Telephone line or a Television… yes those were simpler times. Cut to current times, nowadays our children are being introduced to new gadgets on a regular basis. While these new age gadgets are great in terms of exposure and cutting edge edutainment they come along with repercussions of their own.


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Annie Arora

| Aug 18, 2015

Thank for sharing ......very helping

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Ravi Verma

| Mar 17, 2015

as far as technology is concerned to the children today yes on the face it is not right but it is not disastrous for every child ! children who are active with their right frontal brain lobe ( creative brain) are more at risk to technology use (ipads/mobile/screen, television). parents need to put them to other faster paced activties else they'll be reluctant to quit. if any parent need clarity on the points i have mentioned pls let me know.

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Ravi Verma

| Mar 17, 2015

jilla, make use of a soother temporarily while at home, meanwhile tie her thumb with a cloth or a band. in compulsive situations and when time permits take her out for a ball game or mud activity in the garden.

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jilla sireesha

| Jun 10, 2014

Hi my daughter is 1. 5 year old. she always sucks her thumb. I tried many to stop this thumb sucking habit. Due to this habit she is not playing with her toys,nor learning new things. she is very inactive. If I take the thumb she will cry. Can u please suggest me how to remove thumb .please help me.

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meghana trivedi

| Jun 06, 2014

Very informative writeup. My kid is 6 and we have managed Not to introduce the ipad yet. He plays cricket, swims, runs around and even plays football with dad. There is some about of peer pressure so might buy him one but will definitely follow the tips in this writeup. Thanks.

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samir marghade

| May 06, 2014

very informative write up. in modern world ,we have learnt to stay indoors more .children do not have any experience of outdoor activities. if we encourage children to come out and play ,they will enjoy it more than anything else.

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Sanghamitra

| May 05, 2014

Hi Bhavna.... thanks for the write up... it definitely helps.... by d way was just curious if you come up with the list of iPad apps/games based on child's age.... I would like to know them. Thanks

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Reema

| Oct 10, 2013

thanks a ton for d guidelines 4 parents... my kid is just 2 years n i use my mobile 2 show him rhymes.. but if i dnt tak much care this wil b a near future of my child also..

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Meenakshi goel

| Oct 09, 2013

I was feeling to discuss this topic ....nd u came with this well crafted article.... my son shows extra possessiveness with I pad which was bought for the whole family... whenever we use it ...he interrupt us by saying that I pad is only for kids... nd we r big enough to play games on I pad.... we fixed his tym duration ....we put a password which is only with me nd my hubby... whenever he need to play ...by default he had to cm to us to unlock it ....I think this also helps us a bit....

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Bhavna

| Aug 26, 2013

hey karishma , awesome job with the I- pad control and i completely agree that if handled properly it is infact a great gadget...

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Karishma

| Aug 23, 2013

My son is 4. 6yrs old now and has been using the i-pad and other gadgets comfortably in the house ever since I can remember. I have set ground rules which work for us, the most important being that when he has a friend in the house no one is allowed to play with the i-pad but instead spend quality time with his friend. We have always seen the i-pad as a blessing and never as a curse. Since the games and other apps on the pad are only downloaded by me monitoring my son's activity on the gadget is in my control. Most of the apps are educational which help in the mental growth and stimulation of my child and some are popular games to keep him engaged when the need arises. All in all the point I am trying to make is that we have never seen the i-pad as a threat to our family but more as something that can be used as a means to an end which is a mix of education and entertainment.

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ruchee

| Aug 22, 2013

A good article indeed. Very relevant. I have found a very simple solution to restrict the usage of the tab - I have put a password to the screen lock. This way atleast I know when my child is using the tab - as first he has to come to me to unlock the screen. :) Helps in monitoring !

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Bhavna

| Jul 30, 2013

hey hazel , we have a great blog on the site called, myths about eye health that all parents should know about, why don't you give it read, it ma just help you ..

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Hazel

| Jul 29, 2013

My daughter is 3 years of age. She has been using her IPad since She was 2. 5 Years. I have downloaded Mickey Mouse Club house, poems, painting and Animal movies for her. She is just so possessive abt her IPad that she doesn't want to share it with me too even it I have some work to be ddone on it. But now I have made Strict rules for her tto follow. She can see the IPad only from a distancefor a llimited period of time. ............................I have a question - what if my daughter complains of stress in her eyes. Is there any homemade rectifying solution for that before taking her to the doctor

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Suruchi Bhawsinghka

| Jul 16, 2013

Hi Bhavna. I find IPad very helpful for children. My 2. 3yr old son loves the colourful pictures in IPad. I had downloaded several rhymes and toddler activities in IPad for him. Mickey Mouse club house is one of his favourites. Puzzles,animal sounds,vehicals are other alctivities for them. And as you mentioned I give him IPad just one in a day for a specified time so that he is not restricted with just IPad .

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Bhavna

| Jul 01, 2013

Thanks everyone, I am glad that i could help ... i was just wondering about doing another article featuring some of the great games of the I-pad , what do you all think ?? In my search to have age appropriate games on the i-pad at home and not have aggressive, violent games, i have discovered some amazing games and seen wonderful results of these games on my 6 going on 16 year old daughter... come on ladies ... show me the way !!

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aparna

| Jun 17, 2013

Hi Bhavna.. the I pad story is very well percieved and drafted. My daughter now 13 yrs old got her I pad 2 last year as a reward for a scholarship she had bagged for her acadic excellence in school. I had my fears before gifting her one. But now I am glad about our decision as these days kids have lot of internet research based homeworks which hence makes an I pad quite a help. Also we discuss the possible positives n negatives of I pad and web usage,hence she uses it responsibly. As you have rightly put up,our own use of technology sets a precedent for the kids. She plays games,watches movies,does her schoolwork etc. but all in vry controlled and limited slots. An I pad or anyother gadget should hence be given to children making sure that they use it sparingly and responsibly.

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Akshaya

| Jun 08, 2013

Hi bhavana... The blog is very useful to all d parents who r facing this problem it's also very good for to be parents... Loved it thanks for this wonderful article... :)

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Anupama Gujadhur

| Jun 08, 2013

My elder daughter is 12, going on 13 and she loves to go on You Tube. She enjoys listening to music and watching some cartoons(which she tries to hide from me as she thinks she's too big for that and we'll make fun of her) tries to erase the history.... I have to keep a constant vigil.

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Nisha Menon

| Jun 06, 2013

The very purpose of I-pad should be first understood by parents. It'a an easy tool to engage kids. you can put the ipad to good use of the kids by playing them nursery ryhmes on it. These days you get ipad for children which play rhymes and ABC... you can get one of those for your kids. Your pointers are excellent!!!

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smriti

| May 22, 2013

This article is an eye opener, thanks for sharing :)

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smriti

| May 22, 2013

Very well drafted... I am glad that my tab is physically damaged since few months and during this time my 2 year son have drastically changed his playing style and become more physical. We have been able to draw line in terms of not letting him touch our own personal laptops and phones, this leaves him with TV which he is not very much keen barring few favorite cartoon n music.

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Ashwini

| May 22, 2013

My daughter is one year seven months.... Around d age of 1. 3 itself she herself learnt how to unlock d i pad.... She knows to play games n she wil select d icons which she likes... But after reading this article i have to minimize giving her ipad.... Thanks for d info

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Ashwini

| May 22, 2013

My daughter is one year seven months.... Around d age of 1. 3 itself she herself learnt how to unlock d i pad.... She knows to play games n she wil select d icons which she likes... But after reading this article i have to minimize giving her ipad.... Thanks for d info

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Saravanan Subburayal

| May 21, 2013

Well crafted article, with life saving lessons for parents. Sticking to IPad always lead to some sort of mental issues for the kids. Lot of physical activities need to be taught for the kids.

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Ritu

| May 19, 2013

A very well written , current and apt to the times article. Sure, it would help parents to set the guidelines for the use of IPad in the house , and see to it that it becomes a boon and not a bane.

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Shikha Batra

| May 15, 2013

Well d topic chosen for discussion is fantastic n quite relevant in present day scenario. In almost all households I-pad has become a problem rather than a blessing. We adults keep pondering whether we did d right thing by introducing it to our kids. in my home too its an issue which needs to be solved everyday as my daughter wud just not allow us to use it n cOnsiders it to be her private property. it involves a gr8 deal of responsibility regarding issues such as d content, d time allowed, whr to use, how to use n when to use. Bhavna I'm sure d pointers u have raised wud be very useful n wud help us parents in dealing wisely with this bone of contention D I-pad.

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Trupti Joshi

| May 14, 2013

Really amazing pointer.

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gaurima

| May 13, 2013

Amazing pointers Bhavna. These days the issue of using the I-pad by the kids is perennial SO MUCH SO once a child aged 6. 5 got i-pad in the neighbourhood park to show off. I wish the message in this blog spread far and wide in the parent community.

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