How to Teach Your Child to Respect Women?

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Dr Deepak Solanki
5 years ago

How to Teach Your Child to Respect Women?

Every now and then we read about crimes against girls and women—eve-teasing, passing lewd comments, abuses, rapes and sometimes gruesome murders too. These things get highlighted in the newspapers /news channels for a few days and then it's all back to square one. No one tries to solve the root cause of the problem but just gives a philosophical lecture, which we all have become habituated to now. The root cause of such things is related to lack of basic education and more importantly, lack of morals and ethics. [Read - How To Progress Towards Gender Parity This Women's Day?]

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Why are the news reports replete with stories of violent crimes and abuse episodes against women? And importantly, do we wish for a change in this regard? Do we want a safer environment for our little girls to grow up in? If yes, then it is the right time to teach your little ones to respect women. And we as parents need to start early—when our children are still in their childhood.

Why Children May Think It Is Ok To Not Give Women Their Due Respect

There are certain incidents in daily life that impact the way our children perceive girls and make a generalized impression in their minds about them. It can be a good or a bad one based on the environment and circumstances. Here are a few of them:-

We Are Misleading Role-models

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Try to recollect a moment when you were frustrated at a particular point in your life, which led you to hurl out a string of abuses (including certain abuses in the local dialect that objectifies women) not realizing that your children were sitting next to you. Not a good example to set in front of your children, as they will think that hurling abuses are the right way to vent your anger. If your children are grown up, they might go a step further and try to decipher the meaning of the glorious abuse that just knocked on their eardrums and so the vicious cycle would continue making them abusive and further teach them to objectify women through cheap words. [Mother's Story - Are We Teaching Our Boys to Respect Women?]

Impact of TV

Similarly, TV serials/cartoons/movies often depict a meek( read 'horribly wrong') picture of girls -one who is extra sensitive/submissive/cannot defend herself/cries every now and then/is bullied by family members or treated as a burden on them, etc. Visual and auditory impact of the acts that children see or hear directly gets imprinted onto the young minds.

What Can We Do to Change the Situation?

So, can we as parents do something about it? Sure we can, at least at our own level because our children are tomorrow’s future. There are a string of measures one could rather take -

  • Children should be taught to respect both sexes equally, to be brave and confront situations confidently knowing that their parents are forever behind them.
  • Children should trust their parents like best buddies and open up to them without any hesitation.
  • Both girls and boys from childhood itself should be taught the difference between a good touch and an inappropriate one.
  • Parents should consciously avoid using abusive language, with or without children being around.
  • One should keep a constant track of a child's academic and extra-curricular performance so that any deviation can be recognized at the earliest and corrective action taken accordingly.
  • Sex education at an 'appropriate age' in an 'appropriate manner' is much better than learning it inappropriately via the Internet or via school mates.
  • If children learn to treat everyone around them (boy/girl) equally and with respect, they would grow up to be respectable citizens and would be an example for others too.
  • People might say that how does change one's attitude changes the entire society. But as it's said, drops by drops make up an ocean, thus every drop counts.
  • Change comes from within and it's imperative that we as parents play our part in teaching our children better values, to respect girls and treat them as equal sex, inculcating values of sharing and helping each other, and grow up to be good human beings.

If one candle can light up a dark room, our children can surely light up this nation and teach the ignorant /uneducated /ones that girls ( and women) are human beings too – who need to love, care and affection like all of us, who are as capable as anyone living on the face of this earth to achieve the impossible and need to be respected for who they are and what they stand for.

 

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