my duaghter says no for eveything i ask her to do ...there is no reason for that no.... she just says it it has become a habit plz help...

hi dear it has become a common issue with all kids now a days , even my 14 months daughter does the same , wen it comes to food especially she just nodds her head , i tried alot i got fed up, than finally with lot of patience i calmdown my self and i started acting as she wants and slowly started molding her with games , music , rhymes i started becoming more close to her, i stopped forcing her , wen we force them they become more and more stubborn , now she is so nice to me now she is slowly coming to a track.

The moment she says no dont ask her the same thing second time by using same words. For example- You ask her do you want to drink water, as you said she is definetely going to say NO. Let her say so... Now reply like this ...koi baat nahi beta,apko abhi nahi pina hai, thode der baad piyoge? Or say like this aacha abhi apko pyas nahi lag rahi hai... jab lagegi toh mumma ko bol dena aur say aacha aapko ye small glass mein nahi pina hai aap toh woh big big glass mein pura pani piyoge.... Try like this way am dead sure she will say/accept

Fellow parents plz drop ur views :)