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Breastfeeding – Don’t give up so soon!

Lakshmi Kapoor Verma
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Breastfeeding Dont give up so soon

Breastfeeding a baby is one the safest and wisest decision you can take for your child, but don’t let the initial hitches, make you change your mind. Here a mother shares her own experience.


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Darshika Nolkha

| Aug 12, 2017

At the initial stag.. I was also so shy while feeding my child in public.. BT.. I managed any how... And ya I had lose 10kg weight after delivery... Now I looked like a old lady.... So I m so worried ant my weight... But my child need bf but I some time think to not feed my baby by breast milk.... He was 10 months old now... Is it early to leave bf?

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Monika Singhal

| Jun 02, 2017

hey my nipples is nt formed.. my baby is 40 days old what can i do.. i take help from breast pump. plzz suggest ho i formed nipple..

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Shilpa Kumar

| Jun 02, 2017

Hi, my baby is 1 year 1 month now shall I continue breastfeeding or upto how many months I have to feed please inform me

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Pankhuri

| Jun 02, 2017

my milk is not enough for my baby so I give powder milk how will I increase my milk

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Nabanita Mukherjee

| Aug 02, 2016

Hi.... I hv a baby boy Rayan, 1. 5 months old.. Rayan's birth weight was 3. 755 Kgs. now he is 5. 1 KGS... is he OK?... plz suggest me

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Zainab

| Aug 02, 2016

hii my son is 8 months old and from 4 month I stopped him breastfeeding bcoz my son was very weak can I start it again is der any way to start the breast feed

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Saloney Vohra Agnihotri

| Aug 02, 2016

meri daughter 4 months ki ha BT wo bht weak ha breastfeed hi karti ha kaise usko thoda healthy banaya jaye. sab dekhte hi kehte hq ye to bht weak ha chota sa face ha help karo plz

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Aben Kim

| May 10, 2016

thanks fellow mom@laxmi... fingers crossed :)

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| May 10, 2016

Hi Aben , Congrats on being a new mom .. Traveling with an infant for the first time can be scary but trust me there is no reason to be anxious .. I traveled to Goa when my daughter was 2 months old .. Made sure she was well fed (bf) during landing or take off to avoid the pain in her ears .. Rest of the time she mostly slept peacefully .. Cheers

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Aben Kim

| May 08, 2016

hii... 1st time mom to a handsome 2month old boy. we wil be travelling soon and i am nervous of how the journey would be on a plane for 4hours. would he fuss? would he cry? would he sleep? any suggestions?

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Apr 27, 2016

Hi Vigneswari , trying to exclusively bf twins can be difficult and I agree with the doc's technique here since it is a good proportion of bf and ff . Would suggest you continue to follow the same given the fact that you have twins and are diabetic too ..

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Vigneswari Senthil Raja

| Apr 22, 2016

Hi.... I am a mother of twins who are both bf and ff. I was told by the doc that for twins milk may not b sufficient so when u feed one baby give formula feed to the other and next reverse it. I used that technique until they were two weeks weeks but later I started giving bf for both of them. But there comes a point where bf becomes insufficient when they have it for every one hour and I feel my breasts empty but even though I feed them I find them still hungry and insufficient. Do there comes a point where I feed them with formula max 2-3times a day. What I should do to exclusively bf them. Now there are almost 3months and I am a type 1 diabetic due to which it becomes to breastfeed them sometimes. Any suggestions???

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Apr 20, 2016

Shweta keep trying from left side .. As mentioned it's a demand supply game .. Slowly your left breast will adjust to the milk supply it should be producing . If you are still facing issues after trying , I suggest you meet a doc to find a solution to this problem

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Apr 20, 2016

Thank you so much Shantha for your kind words . Your comment and story really inspires moms to understand the importance of breast feeding and I hope more and more of them are able to get over their fears and doubts . Cheers to healthy babies :)

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shweta jain

| Apr 12, 2016

Hi, my baby 6mths old an she bf frm right side only and nw d size of breast is uneven. wht shld I do?

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Shantha Venkatesh

| Apr 04, 2016

Well said Lakshmi. First time I'm writing a reply to a blog :) i was very much inpressed by ur positive way of approaching bf. Thumbs up :D I'm also a new mother for a 5 month old baby boy. I'm exclusively bf him. As u said, I never scared if my milk will b enough for baby or not before delivery. But after starting feeding, I also fell to doubt if my milk is enough for him but as per nature all mom s are "eligible" to feed their babies. I was on the verge to discontinue feeding him due to all depression n irritation which I use to feel. Then somehow made up my mind and I reduced my tension and depression which is usual post pregnancy and had to eat a very healthy diet and now on the positive side... Hope to continue till he turns 1 yr old. I really support ur blog Lakshmi n all new moms please don't give up simply saying I'm not getting feeds.. Try out many ways as Lakshmi told to give ur best to ur angels.

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Apr 02, 2016

Dear Friends, please understand that the supply of milk is in direct proportion to the demand your child makes for the milk. So do not fear that your body is not producig enough milk. In majority of cases it is just a misconception that the child is hungry/not enough milk is there etc. till the time there no serious medical issue, all moms have a natural mechanism of supply and demand. So please donot hesitate and go on with your plans of feeding your child exclusively. All the best!

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Bini

| Apr 02, 2016

Hi friends , my son is 3 months old. He was 2. 7 kgs at birth and at 2. 5 no the he was 5. 3 kgs. I bf him fully. Sometimes he cries very loudly and my MIL always say he's crying for hunger as I'm not getting enough milk. But then he's not taking ff also however I try. My MIL even tried giving him plain water but that also he refuses to take. But when I take him out to Dr and all I don't bf him that time he easily takes the feeder. My milk also leaks after 2-3 hrs if my son is sleeping continuously. And breast becomes hard. How do I know if I'm getting enough milk.

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Khushbu T Kumar

| Mar 15, 2016

Hi frndz I hav 1. 5 month old daughter . She is completely on bf but my main concern is that should i b able to continue exclusively bf , i really wanted to exclusivly bf my daughter but my mother had milk only for two months in her every prgncy so i doubt should i'll b having proper breast milk so that i can continue bf for 6 months or more

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Anuradha Joshi

| Mar 15, 2016

It is indeed a very good blog. I have a 7 month old daughter and I was thinking about giving up breastfeeding. But now I will carry on at least till she turns a year old. Thanks a lot.

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aanchal thacker kewlani

| Jan 07, 2016

I had the same issue too ....being a first n breach baby boy I was not allowed a normal delivery so being c section ....I could not give bf for initial 2 days which made my son habituated of taking tf ..... n everyone in the in laws wanted me to continue with it ..... and I did nt have milk initially properly .... but due to all the reasons u mentioned above that I had in mind n never wanted to give up it did take a lot of time say around 15 days for me n my son to get rid of tf completely ...... today he 2. 5 months old n exclusively on bf ...... but only one thing I will say one should blender give up trying the kids can be moulded the way u want them from these days itself ... n kids luv the bf it satisfies them internally unlike tf

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shilpa shree

| Dec 11, 2015

I wish I could have read this article much earlie. Now I am having neither sufficient breast milk nor my 4 month old lo takes tf or ff. Don't know what to do

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Suparna Rao

| Dec 04, 2015

Hi, i am a mother of 6months old baby boy. Till how long should i breastfeed my baby. My mother inlaw wants me to stop my feed and give cow's milk, which i am not willing. Kindly help me out. I want to bf my son till 2yrs of age. Which foods should i take in order to maintain my milk flow?

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Nov 15, 2015

Dear Ruchita ,I completely understand your point here .. First two nights I faced the same issue and was heavily pressurized to give ff.. However I refused to give up But I can gauge that your case was not the same due to some physical / medical reasons .. But what about moms who give up voluntarily without any such physical issues .. My blog tried to understand those women and provide a little bit of motivation to not give up ..

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Nov 15, 2015

Dear Ruchita ,I completely understand your point here .. First two nights I faced the same issue and was heavily pressurized to give ff.. However I refused to give up But I can gauge that your case was not the same due to some physical / medical reasons .. But what about moms who give up voluntarily without any such physical issues .. My blog tried to understand those women and provide a little bit of motivation to not give up ..

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Nov 15, 2015

Thanx Dr Ritu and Urvashi for sharing your experiences

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Ruchita Thareja

| Nov 01, 2015

Hi Lakshmi.. A very informative article on breast feeding. But it's disheartening for women like me and many others in my known circle, that we didn't get milk in our breath at all. Initially, I thought that breast milk would eventually with my delivery.. And milk was there too.. But with the milk that I use to get, it didn't content my son's hunger. And as a result, with a good healthy birth weight, he just reduced drastically. And with no other option, doctor suggested to go for formula along with my milk. But that unhappiness, added with stress resulted in reduction of my breast milk. I took medicines too for increasing the supply.. Drank warm water, took shatavari, did breast exercises.. But too no avail.. Finally, my son use to get irritated with no supply and he gave up finally. I was shattered.. I tried but I could not help much and the final resort was to just give up. So just 3 months of limited milk supply was the only thing that I could give to my son.. Have not thought of having a second baby yet.. !! Have no plans either.. ! But this thought, that I could not breast feed my baby, will always trouble me.. !! Sigh

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Urvashi Kaushik

| Oct 03, 2015

The most important piece in thi article was about the advice for breastfeeding your baby in public. A lot of mothers of young babies feel restricted in their homes because they would not imagine breastfeeding in public. It's a difficult choice since you should be able to get out to get some fresh air or run an errand blwithout compromising on your baby's nutrition. Not all places in India have feeding / changing rooms but that's their problem. Breastfeeding is a beautiful natural thing and a mother should not have to hesitate doing it. Of course the stoles or a proper nursing sling gives almost instant privacy! P'S. I have a two month old and I have already fee her on a flight and at a hotels reception but I would want to caution against feeding baby in a moving car. Not the safe at idea.

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Dr Ritu Kumari Gupta

| Sep 18, 2015

i will like to add something to blog out my clinical experience. New mothers start pulling your nipples out during pregnancy itself. retracted nipples after delivery may b a big problem as new born find it hard to get latched to. Mother may also find difficult to feed baby and this may cause mental anguish. also note ot may take 2 to 3 days milk to form in cessarian section so dunt panic and have patience

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Satyansu Ranjan

| Sep 10, 2015

The best way to disconnect baby bf habbit is apply turmaric paste or neem leave paste on your nipple and bf them when they need bf within 7 days your baby will automatically leave bf habits due to taste. Psychologically babies think taste is not good so need to leave. Repeat the same process if any time ask in future too.

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Sep 03, 2015

Hi Sweta .. Thanx for giving the blog a read .. I plan to continue at least till my baby is a year old .. 9 months is too early .. Have read many case studies which clearly indicate minimum bf duration till about a year.. You could also discuss this with your paed .. All the best !!

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Sweta Bhati

| Aug 31, 2015

Hiii... thanks for sharing... Till what time we shld continue bf to our baby..... As many ppl r saying me tat now slowly slowly make her leave ths habit..... she is 9mnths only

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 28, 2015

Sukanya try replacing the feed with a snack or whole milk .. Basically try to give a substitute for your feed to your child .. See if it works

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Mukta Suyal

| Aug 28, 2015

Hi I am a working mother my son is of 2 years now but he loves breast feeding. When I came back from work at 4 pm he takes feed and fall asleep then at night also he repeats the same way. Would should I do

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 24, 2015

Hi sandy,seems like your daughter is not satisfied with her meal at dinner time.. Also sometimes kids have a habit of comfort sucking to trigger their sleep .. What is she usually having at night for dinner ?

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Sandy

| Aug 20, 2015

My daughter is almost 2 years now and is still bf'ing. we tried to get her rid of this habit but of no use. she is not good at eating and so wants to take that atleast 3 times in the night. anything that we can do to get her leave this habit. pl help.

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Sandy

| Aug 20, 2015

Hi.

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 14, 2015

My pleasure !

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Ranjini SathishKumar

| Aug 14, 2015

Info shared was really helpfully.. Thnk you so much..

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 14, 2015

dear KP, my baby has always been demand fed- which simply means feeding her on demand weather it be in an hour or 2 or more. this practice helped me maintain an optimum weight for her even though she was very average weight wise when she was born. babies lose upto 500gms in the first month so i think you should watch out a little more . all the best!

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Lin Panakal

| Aug 13, 2015

All babies lose weight after they are born. This is because in the mother's womb filled with amniotic fluid, the skin has soaked up water... After birth it dries up and causes the baby to loose weight. Just stick to breastfeeding as often as the baby wants. He will be fine. Lin

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Kp

| Aug 12, 2015

I hd a doubt... my son is 1month old.. he seems to be satisfied after breastfeed for 45mins but still he has not put on weight how much he should have.. he is still 300-400gms behind his actual weight... doc has told me to give tf after every bf... my question is if my baby is satisfied with bf then why is he not increasing weight as required???kindly help...

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 12, 2015

Thnx neha :) great going !!

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Neha Gupta

| Aug 12, 2015

Very Nice Blog Lakshmi... this reminds me all my breastfeeding experience. My daughter is 1. 5 yrs still she is taking bf wherever i am going:)

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Lakshmi Kapoor Verma

| Aug 11, 2015

You are more than welcome Vaidhegi :)

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Vaidhegi

| Aug 11, 2015

Thank you for sharing your experience lakshmi

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