Children going to higher studies is a moment of mixed emotions. As you feel super happy and proud of your child, you can’t ignore the fact of living without them. The same feeling is being felt by actress Shilpa Shirodkar right now. Her daughter Anoushka has gone away to pursue higher studies and she is not able to stop her emotions from pouring out.

In a recent post, Shilpa opened her heart to her followers. She reminded all of us that letting go is one of the hardest parts of parenting.

A Mother’s Love And The Pain Of Farewell

For Shilpa, seeing Anoushka step into a new chapter of her life brought a flood of emotions.

In her message, Shilpa mentioned:

“Goodbyes are always hard. It doesn’t matter how old they get; as a mother, your heart still feels the ache of letting them go.”

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The Emotional Complexity of Parenting

Parenthood is a journey filled with milestones. The first step your baby takes to the first word they speak and the first day at school. And then comes the first goodbye. Each stage carries its own charm. When children leave home to pursue their dreams, parents face a mix of pride and grief.

Pride for the knowledge that your child is ready to explore and grow independently.

Grief for the sudden absence and the quiet home. The sudden realization that childhood moments are now memories.

Encouraging Independence While Feeling the Loss

While farewells are painful, they are also essential for a child’s growth. Sending Anoushka off to pursue her higher studies is a testament to Shilpa’s dedication to her daughter’s independence.

Express Out Your Emotions

Shilpa’s post also highlights the importance of expressing emotions openly. Many parents don’t show their pain. But sharing can make you feel lighter and it really works.

• It normalizes the emotions of pride, love, and sadness simultaneously.
• It allows children to see that their parents are human, too, and that strong emotions are part of life.
• It connects with other parents, building a sense of shared experience and empathy.

Saying goodbye is never easy for any parent, but it is part of the beautiful journey of raising independent and confident children. Every goodbye is also a promise saying, “We love you, we trust you, and we’ll always be here for you.”